Getting back Your Ex and Living Happily Ever After   

Your friend, lover, partner is gone and you want them back. How will you do it? What will you have to do? There are some basics that could have prevented the break-up; what you need and will continue to need to get your ex back and living happily ever after. 

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The first thing you will need is communication. This is a building block for any relationship. Without communication you cannot let them know how you feel, what you need and how they feel and need. Communication does not mean screaming at each other. It means different things. Communication can be verbal, gestures, or looks. One look can show them many things; you love them, you think they are funny, or they are exasperating. Gestures can convey meanings too. They can tell you that they want a hug, need a kiss, or they are upset, and of course communication also means talking. If they are willing to communicate then take the next step.  

The next thing you will need is the art of listening. If you cannot listen then you cannot communicate properly. Listen to what they have to say, and what they aren’t saying. The inflection is their voices carry a lot of emotions and can tell you when they are happy, upset, or any other emotion they are feeling. You can communicate better with them if you know how to listen. When they speak with you listen to them, they will tell you why they left.  

The last thing you will need to do is compromise. If you cannot compromise then you haven’t communicated or listened correctly. Some things they tell you will help you learn how to compromise. This does not mean that you have to change everything and give in to all demands. It means that you reach an agreement to change small things that cause problems. An example of a compromise is that they don’t like having to do all the housework, a compromise is to assign each other rooms to clean and then do it. If you come to an agreement then you need to make sure it is something that you can agree to follow. If you cannot keep an agreement then you have not compromised and things will not work out they way you want them to. Some things they will not compromise on, but if either of you are willing to change then you can work that out too. If they want to get out of the house and eat a romantic dinner then you can work that into your budget. If you can afford it then you can show them and let them see that you can but only if you cut back on another area of spending, this does not mean cutting back on necessities but cutting back on spending what you spend for lunches at work, or another expense that you don’t have to have.  

Learning these skills and using them will help you to get your ex back. Communication, listening and compromise will set things in motion to get your happily ever after. You will need all three skills not just one or two. They are all connected.  If you can prove to them that you have these skills they will be more likely to communicate, listen and compromise with you. They say that love is the answer but you have to tell them, show them, and share that love with them.  

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