Getting Your Boyfriend Back And Keeping Him 

Your boyfriend has dumped you and you want him back. You know that he is the one for you and you don’t want to be without him. What can you do? How do you win him back? There are some things that you can do and need to do. 

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Why did they leave? Some men will tell you to your face why they are leaving but some will leave you a letter. Listen to what they are telling you or read the letter all the way through. They will tell you why. Depending on what they tell you, you will know what you need to do after that. If the reasons they left are something that you can work with then you will need to decide a plan of action. If they haven’t grown up and they need a mommy figure in their lives are you sure you want to be that person? It could be that they feel hemmed in or pressured then you need to find out why they feel hemmed in or pressured. Don’t beg for answers just ask and if they cannot answer then they are not willing to work with you and you will know that you won’t be happy with them.  

Communication is the key to any relationship and some men have problems with verbal communication. You need to know not only what they mean with they do communicate and that doesn’t always mean verbally. They will have gestures and looks or inflections in their expressions.  

Listening is another skill we can all develop. We can listen to what they tell us and gain clues about how they feel, what they think and how to work with them to achieve both of your goals. So now we have communication and listening.  

The next thing is the art of compromise. You don’t need to give in to all their demands, but there are areas of give and take. Work with them. You can compromise on the toothpaste issue by buying flip lids instead of screw on caps. The toilet seat issue is one that you may not want to compromise on but they might be willing to concede defeat on that one if you are willing to concede on something else. Do not compromise on issues that you cannot agree to keep.  Work with them, there is always a solution. 

If you have developed the necessary skills you might need to help them develop the skills. See if they are willing to go to couples counseling. If they are then you will have help, if not then see if you can help them. Go out for a coffee with them and see if they will talk to you and use your listening skills. You can ask questions and open the lines of communication. If you want a friend, partner and lover then start with being a friend first.  

Getting your boyfriend back and keeping him is not easy but with both of you working to keep the relationship alive and both of you happy gets easier with time. Develop the skills necessary and work with them. It takes two and you shouldn’t be the only one working on the relationship.  

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