How To Get Back With An Ex You Still Have Feelings For  

You have broken up with your significant other and you still have feelings for them, despite whoever called an end to the relationship. One of you may have decided that you needed time apart to see what you really wanted from the relationship, it may have been to give either of you time to grow up and mature, it might have been because of a breakdown in the relationship, but how do you get back with an ex without looking desperate?  

If the separation was amicable then you will still be a friend and that is a good thing. Are they seeing someone else? This can bring an obstacle into your plan and you will have to consider whether they can be happier with you or with them. Something about loving another person is that you always want them to be happy no matter the situation. If you feel that you can make them happier then you will have to proceed carefully.  

As a friend you can talk freely with them and tell them how you feel. Do not sound desperate and do not beg; just state it as a fact. You still have feelings for them and you would like another chance to prove that you can make them happy. Tell them that whatever the reasons for the breakup that you can work them out. Don’t forget to ask them how they feel and if they think that you can have another chance. They also need to feel the same. If they don’t feel the same way then you may have to settle for being friends or just going your separate ways.  

It takes two people to make a relationship work. It will fall apart if only one person is working on the relationship; this is why we call it being a couple. Working on a relationship involves communication; verbal and non-verbal. It takes listening to the other person no matter the subject, and it takes compromise. If you cannot communicate, listen and compromise then your relationship will not work. Just loving someone is not enough.  

You cannot expect things to immediately return to what they were before the breakup. Don’t panic if things don’t immediately resolve themselves. Getting them back takes time. You will need the patience to do things the right way. They may also need time to think about what they want. Just make sure you let them know that things will be different. You have learned what it takes to make a relationship work and that you care enough to make it work so that you are both happy. They have to be willing to make things work too. Do not beg and do not make yourself sound desperate; even if you are.  

You’ve broken up with your significant other and you still have feelings for them. How do you get them back? Tell them how you feel and that you would like to have another chance to make them happy. Do not offer them anything they want, they will take advantage of you and that will not make you happy. Communicate, listen and compromise.