I Got Dumped What Do I Do Now

You’ve been dumped. Okay. Now what do you want to do? You have several choices. Do you want them back, which is not always the answer? Do you want to start over and get on with your life and find the right person for you? Do you want to take a break from relationships altogether? Any of these choices are very good depending on what you want to do. Make a choice and decide a plan of action.  

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If you want them back then you will have to look at the reason they dumped you. You know that they didn’t leave because they just decided to leave. There was a reason. You will need three basic skills to help you; communication, listening and compromise. Communication means verbal and non-verbal. Open the lines of communication and listen to what they have to say and what they are telling you verbally and non-verbally. The reasons still exist for the breakup but you can work with them to form compromises that you can both live with. If they do not want to get back together or they are not worth getting back together with then that is one choice gone.  

The second choice is starting over. There is a right person out there for all of us we just have to find them. We may find a few toads along the way but they are out there. Think of being dumped in a positive manner; they were not the right person for you and that you will find the right one. Put the Kleenex away and think of all the things that didn’t fit you. You are happier without the fighting and arguing, without the anger and sadness. The right one is out there and you are going to find them or they will find you. Sometimes you don’t even have to look. They were there with you all along; you just didn’t listen or see them.  

The third choice is to take a break and get your own life back in order so that you are happy. You can’t be in a happy relationship unless you are happy with who you are. Do things that you have been putting off. Return to school or find a job that you are happy with. Make you happy for a change. This is your me time. When you are ready then you can take the steps to enter another relationship. It is your choice.

You’ve been dumped and don’t know what to do? You have several choices but think about what you really want before making the choice. Do you want them back? This is not always the answer. Do you want to keep searching for the right person? They really are out there. Do you want to take a break and make yourself happy before stepping back into the dating ring? You cannot expect to make someone else happy if you are not happy with who you are.  

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